I wanted to give everyone a heads up that next week, I’ll be reposting some pieces from the series I ran a few years ago called, “People Who Kick Ass.”
I started the series as a chance to shine a very small spotlight on people around me who I thought deserved it. It was also a nice way to bury my head in the sand and take a break from the national and international news. And, yes, I feel like doing THAT again.
But, mostly, it was an opportunity to say thank you and give a virtual shout out to people in my “real life” who I thought deserved it. 
And, so, that’s what I’ll be doing next week. I’ll be reposting profiles of some “People Who Kick Ass.” Or, I’ll just write about Kim Kardashian’s book of selfies for the next seven days.
I haven’t quite made up my mind. 

I wanted to give everyone a heads up that next week, I’ll be reposting some pieces from the series I ran a few years ago called, “People Who Kick Ass.”

I started the series as a chance to shine a very small spotlight on people around me who I thought deserved it. It was also a nice way to bury my head in the sand and take a break from the national and international news. And, yes, I feel like doing THAT again.

But, mostly, it was an opportunity to say thank you and give a virtual shout out to people in my “real life” who I thought deserved it. 

And, so, that’s what I’ll be doing next week. I’ll be reposting profiles of some “People Who Kick Ass.” Or, I’ll just write about Kim Kardashian’s book of selfies for the next seven days.

I haven’t quite made up my mind. 

Today, I am thrilled to introduce you to two new people, Norine Dworkin-McDaniel and Jessica Ziegler. They have a fantastic blog where they write and illustrate funny, clever stuff about parenting called the Science of Parenthood. 
Well — obviously — they are only new to you if you don’t already know them. Duh. If you do know them, aren’t you excited to see them here?! The point — and I do have one — is that I have a hilarious guest post today by Norine of the Science of Parenthood. Drumroll…. Please silence all phones…. No flash photography please… Okay. Without further ado…
HOW TO DRESS A NEWBORN FOR BRUNCH IN 27 EASY STEPS:
I am not one of those gals who takes forever to get ready simply to leave the house. I do insist on showering if I’ll be seen in public. And makeup. And doing something with my hair other than hide it under a baseball cap. But generally, I can make it from shower to sedan in about 30 minutes flat. So when the time came to dress my newborn for brunch, I didn’t think it would be that much different. After all, he’s a boy. Men can get showered, shaved and dressed so fast, I believe they actually go back in time. And my newborn wasn’t even shaving yet, which was a huge time-saver.
So there we were — my husband Stewart, our newborn and I — away for the weekend  at a friend’s condo in Palm Beach. It was my first trip anywhere since I’d given birth four weeks before. My husband had gone fishing in the early morning. The plan was for me to meet him at a chic water-front eatery around noon. I figured Stewart had the hard part — he was going to wrestle tarpon. All I had to do was slap a onesie on my cherub that said something clever about him being our tax-write off, and I’d be out the door in no time.
Right … Those are the things you still believe when you’re a first-time mom with a new baby. Here’s what it really takes to dress a newborn for brunch:
Step One. Put baby in a fresh diaper and adorable onesie and pants, then strap into car seat. Fabulous. He is all ready to go.
Step Two. Pack diaper bag with diapers, wipes, Balmex and disposable bags. Add two bottles of formula (because you tried breastfeeding and failed miserably, so please, no judgment). Toss in five pacifiers — in case pacis #1, #2, #3, #4 fall on the floor and can’t be properly disinfected at the restaurant. Add three extra outfits, in case of spit-up or diaper blowout.
Step Three. Realize you are running late. Make one last pit stop (No, the bladder never fully recovers.) Grab wallet, keys and sunglasses. Sling diaper bag over shoulder. Pick up car seat. Put hand on door handle …
Step Four. Remove hand from door handle because baby is crying … okay … now make that screaming.
Step Five. Put everything down. Unbuckle baby. Realize baby needs a diaper change.
Step Six. Sigh … heavily.
Step Seven. Go back into guest room. Lay baby in the center of the bed so that — even though he cannot move yet — there is not the remotest possibility that he will roll over, fall from the bed and smash his skull.
Step Eight. Open diaper. Duck as the baby immediately lets loose a stream of urine that could knock a tin can off a fence at 50 yards. Make frantic attempts to block the spray with your hands. Realize that this is actually increasing the spray area. Try to ignore the loud screaming as baby sprays himself in the face.
Step Nine. Notice that you are VERY late.
Step Ten. Grab wipes, diapers, Balmex and a clean, dry outfit from diaper bag.
Step Eleven. Strip off soiled, wet onesie, being careful not to break baby’s neck as you pull it off over his head. Wipe pee off of baby. Put on fresh onesie, being careful not to break baby’s neck as you pull it on over his head.
Step Twelve. Squeeze Balmex onto your fingers. Attempt to apply it to wriggly baby’s red, diaper-rashed bottom. Get Balmex on every possible part of the wriggly baby’s skin BUT the red, diaper-rashed bottom.
Step Thirteen. Strip off second onesie. Throw across room.
Step Fourteen. Eye naked, pee-soaked, Balmex smeared baby on bed.
Step Fifteen. Cry.
Step Sixteen. Decide that brunch is wholly overrated … eating anything not delivered to your doorstep is wholly overrated. Wonder why people even bother leaving the house before dinner.
Step Seventeen. Fill bathroom sink with warm water. Put baby in water. Attempt to wash pee and Balmex off of squalling, thrashing, slippery newborn.
Step Eighteen. Gently dry baby with towel. Grab another diaper and third onesie from the diaper bag.
Step Nineteen. Return to guest room. Find dry spot on bed to lay baby on. Redress and rediaper baby. Buckle baby back into car seat.
Step Twenty. Survey much-depleted diaper bag.
Step Twenty-One. Repeat your favorite line from The King’s Speech: “Fuck. Fuck! Fuck, fuck, fuck and fuck! Fuck, fuck and bugger! Bugger, bugger, buggerty buggerty buggerty, fuck, fuck, arse! Balls! Balls, fuck, fucketty, shit, shit!”
Step Twenty-Two. Consider that if this whole situation was the stuff of a Judd Apatow movie, you’d be laughing hysterically. Start laughing hysterically.
Step Twenty-Three. Strip bed and throw pee-soaked blanket, sheets and bedspread into laundry.
Step Twenty-Four. Realize you have now set the Guinness world recordfor being late to brunch.
Step Twenty-Five. Scoop up diaper bag, keys, sunglasses and car seat. Make the sign of the cross … even though you are Jewish. Leave the house.
Step Twenty-Six. Drive frantically — but still very s-l-o-w-l-y — to the restaurant. Valet car. Because dammit, you earned the privilege of not schlepping your baby, bulky car seat and depleted-but-somehow-still-fucking-heavy diaper bag across the fucking parking lot.
Step Twenty-Seven. Spot the mimosa at the table that your loving husband had the forethought to have waiting for you. Weep with gratitude. Drain glass in single gulp. Repeat.

Today, I am thrilled to introduce you to two new people, Norine Dworkin-McDaniel and Jessica Ziegler. They have a fantastic blog where they write and illustrate funny, clever stuff about parenting called the Science of Parenthood.

Well — obviously — they are only new to you if you don’t already know them. Duh. If you do know them, aren’t you excited to see them here?! The point — and I do have one — is that I have a hilarious guest post today by Norine of the Science of Parenthood. Drumroll…. Please silence all phones…. No flash photography please… Okay. Without further ado…

HOW TO DRESS A NEWBORN FOR BRUNCH IN 27 EASY STEPS:

I am not one of those gals who takes forever to get ready simply to leave the house. I do insist on showering if I’ll be seen in public. And makeup. And doing something with my hair other than hide it under a baseball cap. But generally, I can make it from shower to sedan in about 30 minutes flat. So when the time came to dress my newborn for brunch, I didn’t think it would be that much different. After all, he’s a boy. Men can get showered, shaved and dressed so fast, I believe they actually go back in time. And my newborn wasn’t even shaving yet, which was a huge time-saver.

So there we were — my husband Stewart, our newborn and I — away for the weekend  at a friend’s condo in Palm Beach. It was my first trip anywhere since I’d given birth four weeks before. My husband had gone fishing in the early morning. The plan was for me to meet him at a chic water-front eatery around noon. I figured Stewart had the hard part — he was going to wrestle tarpon. All I had to do was slap a onesie on my cherub that said something clever about him being our tax-write off, and I’d be out the door in no time.

Right … Those are the things you still believe when you’re a first-time mom with a new baby. Here’s what it really takes to dress a newborn for brunch:

Step One. Put baby in a fresh diaper and adorable onesie and pants, then strap into car seat. Fabulous. He is all ready to go.

Step Two. Pack diaper bag with diapers, wipes, Balmex and disposable bags. Add two bottles of formula (because you tried breastfeeding and failed miserably, so please, no judgment). Toss in five pacifiers — in case pacis #1, #2, #3, #4 fall on the floor and can’t be properly disinfected at the restaurant. Add three extra outfits, in case of spit-up or diaper blowout.

Step Three. Realize you are running late. Make one last pit stop (No, the bladder never fully recovers.) Grab wallet, keys and sunglasses. Sling diaper bag over shoulder. Pick up car seat. Put hand on door handle …

Step Four. Remove hand from door handle because baby is crying … okay … now make that screaming.

Step Five. Put everything down. Unbuckle baby. Realize baby needs a diaper change.

Step Six. Sigh … heavily.

Step Seven. Go back into guest room. Lay baby in the center of the bed so that — even though he cannot move yet — there is not the remotest possibility that he will roll over, fall from the bed and smash his skull.

Step Eight. Open diaper. Duck as the baby immediately lets loose a stream of urine that could knock a tin can off a fence at 50 yards. Make frantic attempts to block the spray with your hands. Realize that this is actually increasing the spray area. Try to ignore the loud screaming as baby sprays himself in the face.

Step Nine. Notice that you are VERY late.

Step Ten. Grab wipes, diapers, Balmex and a clean, dry outfit from diaper bag.

Step Eleven. Strip off soiled, wet onesie, being careful not to break baby’s neck as you pull it off over his head. Wipe pee off of baby. Put on fresh onesie, being careful not to break baby’s neck as you pull it on over his head.

Step Twelve. Squeeze Balmex onto your fingers. Attempt to apply it to wriggly baby’s red, diaper-rashed bottom. Get Balmex on every possible part of the wriggly baby’s skin BUT the red, diaper-rashed bottom.

Step Thirteen. Strip off second onesie. Throw across room.

Step Fourteen. Eye naked, pee-soaked, Balmex smeared baby on bed.

Step Fifteen. Cry.

Step Sixteen. Decide that brunch is wholly overrated … eating anything not delivered to your doorstep is wholly overrated. Wonder why people even bother leaving the house before dinner.

Step Seventeen. Fill bathroom sink with warm water. Put baby in water. Attempt to wash pee and Balmex off of squalling, thrashing, slippery newborn.

Step Eighteen. Gently dry baby with towel. Grab another diaper and third onesie from the diaper bag.

Step Nineteen. Return to guest room. Find dry spot on bed to lay baby on. Redress and rediaper baby. Buckle baby back into car seat.

Step Twenty. Survey much-depleted diaper bag.

Step Twenty-One. Repeat your favorite line from The King’s Speech: “Fuck. Fuck! Fuck, fuck, fuck and fuck! Fuck, fuck and bugger! Bugger, bugger, buggerty buggerty buggerty, fuck, fuck, arse! Balls! Balls, fuck, fucketty, shit, shit!”

Step Twenty-Two. Consider that if this whole situation was the stuff of a Judd Apatow movie, you’d be laughing hysterically. Start laughing hysterically.

Step Twenty-Three. Strip bed and throw pee-soaked blanket, sheets and bedspread into laundry.

Step Twenty-Four. Realize you have now set the Guinness world recordfor being late to brunch.

Step Twenty-Five. Scoop up diaper bag, keys, sunglasses and car seat. Make the sign of the cross … even though you are Jewish. Leave the house.

Step Twenty-Six. Drive frantically — but still very s-l-o-w-l-y — to the restaurant. Valet car. Because dammit, you earned the privilege of not schlepping your baby, bulky car seat and depleted-but-somehow-still-fucking-heavy diaper bag across the fucking parking lot.

Step Twenty-Seven. Spot the mimosa at the table that your loving husband had the forethought to have waiting for you. Weep with gratitude. Drain glass in single gulp. Repeat.

Oh Sh*t, I’m So Tired (A Poem for New Mothers)

The small hand on the clock points to the five.
The cities and the suburbs are quiet.
But me? I’ve been up for more than an hour.
Oh, isn’t being a new mom a riot?

At four a.m. my newborn got hungry.
I had to feed him to silence his fit.
Now he snores with breast milk dotting his lips. 
And I’m so tired I can hardly stand it.

Yes, I’m tired, exhausted and bitter.
Can’t you tell I’m at the end of my wits?
My poor brain is fried and my body hurts.
Sleep deprivation is truly the pits.

Everybody says to sleep when he sleeps.
Folks who say it think that they are brilliant.
But I need to eat, to bathe, and to pee.
Sleeping is hard to do with an infant.

Six uninterrupted hours would be great.
But I’d take four if my babe would permit.
Because when you’re a newborn’s open bar,
When you rest, you only rest for a bit.

Every time I sit down to eat dinner,
Or try crossing laundry off of my list,
Whenever I hope to call back a friend,
My son will cry and those cries are legit.

Wait! I’ll lie down and close my eyes right now,
Even if it is just for a minute.
I’ll do what they say: I’ll sleep when he sleeps!
Oh, never mind. He is awake now. Sh*t.

(Adapted from a previous post. I no longer have a newborn at home and have — thankfully —rediscovered sleeping.)